Bubbly-Incident

Bubbly-Incident t1_j9m4hcw wrote

TIL about the existence of electric fireplaces.

Who do you think will understand the situation and handle it better? You or your father? Do you think it is important for your dad as much as it's important to you?

I personally would let my dad have the one he liked... I don't know, you'll be able to buy another one in the future, I'm sure, and your dad will have something new to brag about it, something that his son indicated for him to buy it and he liked the idea, the hype!

Take care.

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Bubbly-Incident t1_j9h6acb wrote

>Did he do it before? Was our entire relationship a lie?

I really don't think so, from what you've told here your boyfriend didn't mind doing things only with you, especially after his fight with his friends.

What I and my phony know-it-all-ism think it happened was that his friend came out during this time that they were apart and realized he had feelings towards your boyfriend back in their military days and he unfortunately did this.

Because if your boyfriend never gave the impression that they previously hooked up in the past, if he never felt visibly awkward when you joked about it or if he never kept on talking a lot about Leo, I presume there's no reason to think that something happened before between the two and no reason to think that your boyfriend "was secretly in love with him" all of this time...

Since you two have this intimacy of using each others phones, just be honest with him: tell him exactly what you told here about you trying to take a picture of your cat, that the message popped up and you couldn't help feeling uneasy... it is an extraordinary thing to happen to anyone and I think he'll understand why you read their conversation.

You sound like a cool person, I hope you can sort this thing out. I really can't imagine how you must be feeling and at the same time asking to yourself what in the world has happened... take care.

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Bubbly-Incident t1_ir95smf wrote

If you're looking for something interesting about that, don't bother:

> In 2010, when she was 40, Hall unsuccessfully tried to become a Catholic nun after a bad break-up, having previously wanted to become one at the age of 14. In the latter case, she was refused for being too old, as the cut-off age is 39.

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