Man, Reddit is so toxic and everyone is so quick to judge. Unbelievable how people couldn’t tell you weren’t bagging on sex workers. Keep doing you big guy. Glad you learned what you like.

Yep, you fucked up. Always triple check who you’re texting especially if it’s a sensitive topic like that.

This is why I hate these kinds of relationships. Once you cross their line, there is no turning back. Too fine a line between BDSM and a domestic abuse relationship. She can now send your ass to prison since she decided your crossed the line. Better to just avoid these. However, if not, get documentation like texts that proves she has been asking to be punished that hard. Don’t feel guilty about this. She’s the one asking for it. You made a mistake you didn’t know about. If she set no limitations, she should apologize. Only she knows her pain tolerance. She needs to make you aware of that.

Just try not caring. You sound like you had no intention of acting like a racist douchebag, so as long as you know that, don’t worry kid. You’re young. You’re allowed to make these stupid choices and mistakes because it doesn’t matter until you’re an adult.

Everyone wants to say that and yet somehow everyone still does in their own way. Keep going for clout on Reddit and you won’t have a girlfriend to not cheat on 🤣

Bunch of dipshits on here who act like they’ve never messed up a day in their life and want to downvote you. If you truly think you won’t make the same mistake twice, then try to move on. Don’t tell him especially if he’s in rehab. He will definitely relapse due to the stress. Life is more important than drama.