I am a victim. I dont get how i am not. He was the one that was married not me. Yes, I shouldnt have "blackmailed" him, but I didnt want to let him go. He was my everything. He told everyone about the affair, so I have no way of getting back with him or have no leverage and nows acting like i never existed. Its harsh.

Im the terrible person? The unmarried one! The one who was basically used for a good time behind his wife and kids back.