Ambitious-Cover-1130
Ambitious-Cover-1130 t1_j6msnqu wrote
Reply to comment by Formal_Self_8191 in He (39M) grabbed me and pushed me down, but I (28F) was the aggressor. Where do we go from here? by Formal_Self_8191
Throwing a box of paper is not comparable to physical manhandling. Stop feeling guilty.
Edit.
You could argue that you started the altercation- still one has to argue that men are not allowed to manhandle women. It is the same reason that a professional boxer will get a very hard sentence if he is a street fight and someone gets hurt. The boxer has an advantage. A grown man has the physical advantage (as you see) towards women.
Ambitious-Cover-1130 t1_j6mgsp8 wrote
Reply to I(24MTF) and my friends have this nagging feeling that my "potential" BF(30M) isn't who he says he is by LtWhiskeyFox
This is a scam!! Never send any money to people when you are just meeting up - especially when you do not se them in real life!!!!
Called Nigeria scam.- take a look at James Veitch you tube clips - on how to deal with guys like this - they are hilarious!
Ambitious-Cover-1130 t1_j6mg2k4 wrote
Reply to He (39M) grabbed me and pushed me down, but I (28F) was the aggressor. Where do we go from here? by Formal_Self_8191
In short - attacks of this kind is a BIG RED FLAG.
Find a lawyer - check your finances NOW
Ensure that you are ok as much as you can.
Even though you might loose something it is ok.
Just prepare to get the hell out of there.
Ambitious-Cover-1130 t1_j2azuzl wrote
Reply to comment by ReallyEmbarrassed12 in (20F) (45F) How do I handle this situation with my mom? by [deleted]
Please do. Otherwise you have to formally ask your mother - sadly - but I doubt that it has been changed.
Ambitious-Cover-1130 t1_iyf2ru1 wrote
Reply to My (f22) boyfriend (m22) invades my privacy and I don’t know what to do or how to feel by [deleted]
Personally I think he is a lost case.
When you have made your points/ expectations clear and he continues to break them it is time to start preparing to leave.
He is clearly very controlling and in addition sounds like he is gaslighting you as well. His behavior is unacceptable.
If you want, give him a last chance, start searching for a new place to stay - and when he fails - you leave.
That is if you do not leave now - he sounds like a lot of red flags.
Ambitious-Cover-1130 t1_jacaz84 wrote
Reply to 1 (26f) think Im inlove to someone who's (38m) 12 years older than me, he used to text me everyday then stopped talking to me by ainana7777
A few things yes you are/were in love with him.
When there is a big difference in age - people tend to be judgemental. Seems you are involved in a church that inter fears in people lifes.
Discuss this with your parents. As they like him maybe they can ask him if he loved you or not. If he stopped coming because he did not love you - at least he is an honest man. If he loved you - he is not talking his life seriously.