Ambitious-Ad6113
Ambitious-Ad6113 t1_j26dcm6 wrote
Reply to comment by Kooky_Independent656 in [28F][31M] how do I get him to clean up our space? by [deleted]
Yeah that’s fair, I need to be more direct not bother explaining why it needs to be done but just flat out THIS item donate or throw away? He would say keep it and he will find a place for it… like the two bikes, which he now jokingly calls decor.
Ambitious-Ad6113 t1_j26c8b5 wrote
Reply to comment by SheBeeMe in [28F][31M] how do I get him to clean up our space? by [deleted]
This reply gave me joy I was so focused on being accommodating! I do agree an ultimatum seems necessary here.
Ambitious-Ad6113 t1_j26fz0s wrote
Reply to [28F][31M] how do I get him to clean up our space? by [deleted]
Update: he punched a hole in the wall when I told him I need progress on donating and selling items, I feel nauseous. He said “you don’t know what kind of day I’ve had” is there a job high stress enough to justify that level of upset…