Be brave, talk about it. Find someone who's trustworthy and dependable who can help you learn to slowly expand your comfort zone.
Changes take time, and it's natural to not care about things you're not invested in. If you don't spend your time socializing or working or giving yourself a sense of direction, then you'll naturally be somewhat bad at those things, and it's always frustrating to be bad at things.
I understand that this is a big mental barrier to overcome, so big in fact that it's like a mountain and it seems immoveable, but it's actually quite moveable. A mountain is moved one stone at a time. Even if you can only remove one stone from the mountain a month at first, that's progress, that's moving forward, that's growth. Compare that to what the future becomes if you continue giving up and believing you're not worth the effort it takes or that you're somehow less capable than others, and it's fairly evident that you're comparing a stagnating life to one that's starting to bloom.
Ambient-Shrieking t1_iyf8k3p wrote
Reply to What do you think a person who hates social interaction, hates every job, have no direction and no drive to even survive should do? by Familiar_Finish1488
Be brave, talk about it. Find someone who's trustworthy and dependable who can help you learn to slowly expand your comfort zone.
Changes take time, and it's natural to not care about things you're not invested in. If you don't spend your time socializing or working or giving yourself a sense of direction, then you'll naturally be somewhat bad at those things, and it's always frustrating to be bad at things.
I understand that this is a big mental barrier to overcome, so big in fact that it's like a mountain and it seems immoveable, but it's actually quite moveable. A mountain is moved one stone at a time. Even if you can only remove one stone from the mountain a month at first, that's progress, that's moving forward, that's growth. Compare that to what the future becomes if you continue giving up and believing you're not worth the effort it takes or that you're somehow less capable than others, and it's fairly evident that you're comparing a stagnating life to one that's starting to bloom.