Alarmed-Wolf14

Alarmed-Wolf14 t1_j87gzsp wrote

I mean it’s not always a deal breaker. I’ve always wanted to travel but would give that up for the right person and did.

I think back on it sometimes but I don’t blame them. I made the decision and they aren’t adverse to taking vacations so that’s a good middle ground for me.

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Alarmed-Wolf14 t1_j87esat wrote

The people that are more naturally equipped to fill the support roles like this never get the recognition they deserve because a lot of it is intangible (less stress on the other person) or isn’t noticed (like good technology, good support is almost never noticed when it works. When the house is clean and groceries are bought within the budget and making every purchase count and making the best possible use of money by hours of research)

I’m that person too and it took my husband living on his own to realize how much I take care of for him. He forgets time to time still so I will get busy doing something more tangibly productive and stop doing the other stuff but it never lasts long.

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Alarmed-Wolf14 t1_j8676yk wrote

This thought messes with me. A human is made of multiple types of life that act on its own what if all of this is part of something else that’s more complex than we can ever imagine just like we have cut bacteria and blood cells that could never comprehend our existence.

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