She sounds like a narcissist and is being abusive. For your own mental health, it's probably best to call this off and go NC. If she tries to retaliate, that will confirm this.
Tell her. And stop going behind her back to enable her parents to be controlling and abusive in her life. In fact, going No Contact would be called for here. Their manipulation is sickening.
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Reply to [40M][40F] Need Advice on New Relationship and Female's Behaviors by interstatelovedong
She sounds like a narcissist and is being abusive. For your own mental health, it's probably best to call this off and go NC. If she tries to retaliate, that will confirm this.