Aggravating-Pear9760
Aggravating-Pear9760 t1_iycu6ol wrote
Reply to comment by Standard_Buffalo7762 in My (27M) wife (26F) denies almost everything that I ask her to do. by Standard_Buffalo7762
Unfortunately you're thinking was very naive and no wonder this relationship is failing. You married someone you didn't even know (which under some circumstances can work with negotiations and good match making) but this sounds like a marriage of convenience or a rush but not love or even any other stable benefit. There was no foundation. There most likely is absolutely no sexual or romantic attraction here.
Aggravating-Pear9760 t1_iycouob wrote
Was this an arranged marriage?
It seems neither of you is compatible and she didn't want to be in this marriage.
Seek couples counseling or get a divorce.
Aggravating-Pear9760 t1_iugn54w wrote
Reply to comment by AMP5288 in Regret breaking up with single dad… thoughts? by AMP5288
Understandable but unfortunately it's over and you have to find a way to accept he doesn't want contact. So whatever closure you want, you're going to have to get from moving on.
Aggravating-Pear9760 t1_iugmhvc wrote
Reply to comment by AMP5288 in Regret breaking up with single dad… thoughts? by AMP5288
Not at all. Although maybe he feels that way now considering how it turned out. He was in a place to decide what would be best for him and his child and he decided he was serious enough about you to introduce you but you demanded more and decided the effort he made wasn't good enough for you, so you had a tantrum when you didn't get your way and torpedoed the relationship.
Aggravating-Pear9760 t1_iuglkj5 wrote
Reply to Regret breaking up with single dad… thoughts? by AMP5288
He was making room for you in his life but you demanded more and tried to rush the process. It was only 6 months... Most people don't meet family, the kid or friends in that time but he tried with you. You tanked the relationship and feel like he owes you, he doesn't.
From his perspective you probably shower red flags and proved why bring with you was a bad idea. Relationships especially those with kids involved take time. It's not that he wasn't making you a priority he was sussing out if you were a good fit or not and you weren't.
Either your expectations were unrealistic and selfish or you sabotaged this relationship for some reason.
Aggravating-Pear9760 t1_iyculmt wrote
Reply to My (27M) wife (26F) denies almost everything that I ask her to do. by Standard_Buffalo7762
Everyone on here bashing her and yes she is being difficult but take into account that they never dated or even had a relationship prior to the marriage. They don't even know each other as people let alone how to interact, live together or be married. This whole thing was a terrible way to start a relationship.