plus it’s paying money 🫢 money he could spend on the family orrrrr his wife

Does your wife know about the cam girl?? To many people including myself, talking to someone online and nutting with them is DEFINITELY CHEATINGGGGG. So you’re a cheater. Hot. She will definitely find you more attractive now

Gag. Girl you do not want to attempt to “fix” this man. You’re repulsed, because your body is telling you not to get close for your own health. You can get UTIs from his dirty weiner and fingernails. Unless he has severe, SEVERE depression, he is making the choice to be this dirty. He won’t get better unless maybe you become a mother figure to him and baby him, wash his hair and clothes, teach him how to brush his teeth, make his dental appointments to reverse years of damage… Is that something you want? That’s fine if you do, I guess, but there are thousands of guys who smell good and will also buy you food.

Ok kid

Why are you marrying a white woman if you know you have a fetish that’s this important to you? Like, why?

You’re going to have the same amount of worries and responsibilities as a single guy, maybe even more, except you won’t have a loving and supportive partner to help you through it all.

What kind of things are you wanting to do, exactly?

Just moving out isn’t an option, you want to be single? If it’s not about sex, what’s the aspect of singleness got to do with it?

You could go on a trip alone to a foreign country to get a huge amount of solo time and a “find yourself” experience, just a suggestion.

if you wanted to be the one that cares for her, you should have cared enough not to be disloyal. that’s the bare minimum and you couldn’t even do that. if you care about her at all let her go find the one that won’t give her nightmares

I mean it sounds like you are both towing the line with other people. He isn't acting in a monogamous way and neither are you. It sounds like you should think about what monogamy means to you both and draw boundaries according to that.