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-Chris-V- t1_je82fin wrote
Reply to Robust kitchen stand mixer by Riccma02
I know people love to hate them, but my KitchenAid has served me well, for almost a decade now. BUT I did opt for one of the ones that was marketed as professional grade (who knows) and I expected it would break within it's warranty period so I bought it at Costco to facilitate an easy return.
-Chris-V- t1_j4obg7s wrote
Also, don't mention that you're going back to school in the interview. It's a sure way to not get the offer.
-Chris-V- t1_j4obbs9 wrote
Would this still be your dream job after obtaining the degree you're looking for? If so, do the job full time, take classes super part time. Don't screw up the dream job for the sake of the degree that you're pursuing to obtain the dream job.
-Chris-V- t1_j4mv85f wrote
Reply to tifu: by calling the cops on my girlfriend. by [deleted]
Man I'm so sorry for your situation. It really really sucks.
Your gf sounds like she is in a state of mental health crisis, and that needs to be addressed. I don't know what can be done to get her help, but she needs it. As a part of her getting help, she will likely interface with a social worker, who will also be able to help resolve things.
It does sound like you're deep in the darkness too.
From the details of your post, I assume that mental healthcare would be hard to get due to lack of resources. If that's incorrect, then by all means, you should seek treatment for yourself too.
Poverty fucking sucks. Feeling like you can't make ends meet when you have the responsibility of a family is absolutely crushing. Have you taken advantage of the community resources that are around? Things like welfare, food stamps, WIC, etc?
It does sound like maybe it would be a good idea for your kids to spend some time with relatives if you have them, while you and your gf regroup. I strongly feel that your gf is not in the frame of mind to care for them on her own.
Having young kids around is fucking hard. Nobody likes to admit it because it gets in the way of all those perfect Facebook posts, but if we're being honest with ourselves, it's very very hard. Raising a young family on a seriously tight budget is enough to drive anyone to the edge.
-Chris-V- t1_j3tdis4 wrote
Reply to comment by Knowthanks in BIFL suggestions for cookware? I already have a cast iron skillet. by TrialByFireAnts
For that frequency, I'd probably get one. I use mine less frequently, but I like it a lot. Especially for kneading. The only downside is that it doesn't work well with small volumes.
I do have the pro model, and they are expensive. Maybe a used or refurbished one would do the trick.
We also have a smaller hand mixer we use probably just as often (if I'm being honest).
-Chris-V- t1_j3qqvud wrote
Reply to comment by PuzzleheadedLow4687 in When did this sub go from advice and talks of quality to survivors bias posts? Is there a sub that better matches how this was years ago? by xSympl
As someone who live in a very ugly impossible to heat house from the victorian era, I feel heard. It hasn't fallen down yet, but man it's on its way.
-Chris-V- t1_j3qqoe6 wrote
Reply to comment by Steak_Knight in When did this sub go from advice and talks of quality to survivors bias posts? Is there a sub that better matches how this was years ago? by xSympl
Do we expect the lifespan of Chinese iron to be less than American iron?
Maybe youcanbiyitforlife can also lean more towards stuf that's more affordable. Just because a $600 blanket is available to be purchased doesn't mean that I can buy it.
-Chris-V- t1_j3p8rvh wrote
Wustoff chef's knife! Kitchen aid stand mixer Vitamix blender
-Chris-V- t1_j3jgx4q wrote
Reply to comment by blackhawks-fan in $25 on eBay…worth it! by -SpankBankTank-
What's funny face?
-Chris-V- t1_j2eyb4u wrote
Man, I've read a lot of bad things on here but you may have won.
Your wife must feel so humiliated. Her friend must feel so icky.
Alcohol is no excuse.
The thing you did was in inside you and alcohol let it out. I kinda refuse to accept the excuse of wanting to comfort the friend.
My suspicion is that you're freaked out about the commitment of getting married and have a tendency to self sabotage.
I don't think abstaining from drinking is going to be enough to save this level of screw up. Curious to see what people think could help.
-Chris-V- t1_j27eir8 wrote
Reply to comment by Visual_Mission_1459 in TIFU by trying to hook up with my childhood bestfriend by Visual_Mission_1459
Then get yourself into inpatient treatment/rehab. You probably ruined your friendship with that guy. He will not see you the same way again. Get your priorities straight.
-Chris-V- t1_j23pdez wrote
Reply to TIFU by trying to take my life by Flashy_Piglet_1781
To answer your question "what should I do?"
You should seek treatment, go to therapy, and eventually become open to the reality that there are other fish in the sea.
-Chris-V- t1_j23p30a wrote
Reply to comment by NovaLithic in TIFU by trying to take my life by Flashy_Piglet_1781
No, but people who are dating and suffer extreme mental illness are often not emotionally or mentally available to be in a relationship. And we're not talking about garden variety depression, we're talking about a suicide attempt. It's not fair to expect the S/O in a situation like this to stick around walking on egg shells, unable to speak up or disagree for fear their partner might try again.
If these people do not have long term obligations to each other, they have no long term obligation to each other.
-Chris-V- t1_j21elfm wrote
Reply to comment by sequoiachieftain in LPT Request: Cat Dementia and Yowling (Serious) by MarkusKruber
This sounds much much better than the alternatives. I'm sad to say that we may be approaching this point in the next few years with our cat and it's a comfort to know that such a humane option exists.
-Chris-V- t1_j21cm47 wrote
Reply to comment by sequoiachieftain in LPT Request: Cat Dementia and Yowling (Serious) by MarkusKruber
Could you please share how this works?
-Chris-V- t1_j21ch4c wrote
Dedicated cat lover here. I've gone to some pretty extreme (and costly) measures to bring my cat back to better health...but in this case, with a 17 year old cat who is clearly suffering and clearly near her end, it would be a kindness to help her pass with whatever dignity she has left. Without your help she may last a day, a month, or even a year, but eventually she will pass-- and her life will only get more agonizing.
-Chris-V- t1_j21b42c wrote
Reply to comment by penlowe in where can I buy a pendleton blanket in person? by kingcreamEAT
Cool! I can't wait to try one. Are they itchy (bc wool)?
-Chris-V- t1_j2127h5 wrote
Reply to comment by kosnarf in where can I buy a pendleton blanket in person? by kingcreamEAT
Those look really nice, but I think they are probably different from the wool ones people go nuts over. I've never used either. One of these days I want to check them out. They certainly have a loyal following around here.
-Chris-V- t1_j210k2i wrote
Reply to comment by kosnarf in where can I buy a pendleton blanket in person? by kingcreamEAT
Are the ones at costco the wool ones (that cost hundreds) or are they fleece (that are like $50)?
-Chris-V- t1_j20z69e wrote
Reply to comment by albinoferret in TIFU by exfoliating my public area by Hot_Supermarket4369
The lack of replies to your post is truly a disappointment.
-Chris-V- t1_j1vi71s wrote
Ok, I know this will sound like a joke, but my most treasured it from Australia is a really nice didgeridoo. I'm not a particularly capable didge player, but every time I see it I think fondly of Australia and the traditional culture there.
-Chris-V- t1_j1up6kf wrote
Reply to BIFL Kitchen Essentials by frannybones
Also, buy everything you can from Costco They will actually honor the manufacturer warranty, even when the manufacturer tries to snake their way out of replacing your item.
-Chris-V- t1_j1up0q7 wrote
Reply to comment by erikyouahole in BIFL Kitchen Essentials by frannybones
Op, pay attention to this one! Chainmail scrubbers are awesome for that cast iron!
-Chris-V- t1_j1uou92 wrote
Reply to BIFL Kitchen Essentials by frannybones
I really like my Vitamix. Instant read probe thermometer, cast iron cookware, wustoff knives. I don't love our instant pot.
-Chris-V- t1_jegvaex wrote
Reply to comment by Bart-MS in LPT Request: How to deal mentally with nightly noise during the summer months by Bart-MS
To put an even finer point on it the one you want js called a dohm and it makes the noise mechanically, not with an audio file.